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Here are some tips from Tom Corboy, MFT, Director of the OCD Center of Los Angeles
1. Accept the anxiety. Accepting that anxiety exists doesn't mean liking it or resigning yourself to being anxious forever; it just means accepting reality as it is.
2. Challenge distorted thoughts. People often interpret a panic attack as a significant threat, but it's important to realize that "nothing catastrophic is going to occur as a result of being anxious or even panicking."
3. Breathe. Instead of hyperventilating, which energizes anxiety, "make a point of consciously breathing."
4. Resist the urge to flee. Running away from anxiety only reinforces the idea that you're unable to handle it. Tolerate discomfort. It won't hurt us. It will naturally dissipate over time if we sit with it.
Pitfalls and Pointers
You may hit some snags as you work toward managing your anxiety. Here's a list of common ones and practical solutions:
- Keeping symptoms to yourself. A primary care physician can't make a proper diagnosis or treatment recommendation without having all the information.
- Fighting anxiety as if it were your adversary. It's important to understand that anxiety is a helpful response and a normal part of life.
- Masking it. Whether it's alcohol, illicit drugs or benzodiazepines (such as Xanax or Ativan), these substances offer short-term relief and are akin to running away from anxiety. They can increase avoidance and impair your ability to overcome anxiety-provoking situations.
- Giving up too quickly. Interventions can take a while to work. Keep your long-term goals clearly in mind, giving each treatment enough time and effort.
- Being too motivated. Jumping in head-first isn't recommended either,. Instead of sprinting through treatment, give it time to sink in and strike a balance.
General Tips
- Have realistic expectations. It's unrealistic to think that you'll eliminate anxiety forever. Instead, realize that you'll be able to manage symptoms and stop avoiding certain situations.
- See stress as normal. It's normal to feel stressed. You can't fight stress, but you can work through it, Abramowitz said.
- Adopt a balanced approach. Step back and look at things in a more objective light.
- Adopt an anxiety-free lifestyle: adequate sleep; a balanced diet; exercise and a solid support system.
- How we treat our bodies also directly affects anxiety sensations. Being out of shape can make your heart race even when you're just walking.
A study by Demos, a New York-based nonpartisan public policy research organization, shows thirty years of deregulation has left the airline industry near financial collapse, wiped out thousands of jobs, lowered wages and working conditions for employees, incredible stresses on flight crews, caused a downward spiral in safety oversight, and caused the airlines to lose more than $33 billion since 2000.
Deregulation was promoted as a process to enhance consumer choice and industry efficiency.
The report says the airlines appear to have no long-term strategy except more of the same -- more outsourcing, more service cutbacks and hidden charges, more wage and benefit reductions and more consolidation in the hope of surviving.
The report says. "It is simply not in the public interest to have airlines engaged in a race to the bottom on wages, benefits and working conditions."
The report notes that 10 years ago, two-thirds of all heavy aircraft maintenance was performed by the airlines themselves. Today, more than 71 percent of heavy maintenance is outsourced to domestic and foreign subcontractors, which presents an oversight nightmare for the Federal Aviation Administration, the report states.
American, which employs 7,000 people at its Tulsa Maintenance & Engineering Center, is one of the few U.S. carriers maintaining its own aircraft.
SOAR was established in 1982 because no programs existed that could help people with moderate to severe difficulties. Even today, no other program offers help that is effective except for mild difficulties. No matter how difficult flying is for you, we can help.
- Call me at 877 332-7359 between 10 AM and 6 PM Eastern time or
- Set up a time online at http://soar.genbook.com
- No Charge. No Obligation. Just get the information you want.
You will feel better as soon as you make the decision.
- Accelerated courses give you the most help possible in the time you have available.
- A twenty-minute private session and unlimited group counseling sessions are included.
- What you pay is 100% transferable to the SOAR Video Course 11 DVDs.
Start viewing on your computer screen in two minutes.
- Get a compact version of the SOAR Course.
- Load it on your laptop, iPod or other media player. More info.
Unsure Which To Choose
If you are unsure which is best for you, please call me at 877 332-7359 so we can talk it over. You will feel better as soon as you decide to act.
Call between 11 AM and 6 PM Eastern Time (same time zone as New York)
You'll reach me easily. The toll-free number rings my cell phone.
- find out how I can help you with flying
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- additional twenty-minute sessions are $60.00.
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