View Article  A CLIENT -- AND THE FLIGHT ATTENDANT ON HER FLIGHT -- EMAILED


For The First Time, Emails Came In From Both A Client And A Flight Attendant Taking Care Of Her On ...   more »

View Article  OUTSOURCING CONCERNS; PASSENGERS IN REVOLT
Growing Concern About Outsourcing



While the FAA has cut its number of inspectors, outsourcing to private and foreign companies has ...   more »

View Article  CAPT TOM'S COMPLETE COURSES AT IAMPLIFY INCLUDE COUNSELING

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Counseling With Capt Tom Includes:



  • a fifteen minute individual counseling session by phone to check your progress.


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      • 877 332-7359 or
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      • between 10 AM and 7 PM eastern time



  • group phone counseling Wednesdays from 10 PM until 11 PM eastern time.



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      • dial 1-641-594-7500
      • When asked, enter "pin code" 681956 followed by the # sign.



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View Article  BAD COURSES; THINKING RARITY INTO CERTAINTY



Bad Courses Still Operate



We Put SOAR together in 1982 because there were no courses in existence which were effective ...   more »

View Article  A BIT OF ANTICIPATORY ANXIETY; PARENTAL DEMANDS FOR EMOTIONAL CONTROL



A Bit Of Anticipatory Anxiety And How It Resolved



At Pan Am, when I was flying the old 707, the ...   more »

View Article  FIFTY YEARS AS A FLIGHT ATTENDANT; TAKE ME ALONG FOR VIDEO IPOD




Fifty Years As A Flight Attendant



Maybe this will provide some confidence. Continental Airlines flight attendant Norma Heape will celebrate ...   more »

View Article  LASTING EFFECTIVENESS; ALLAN SCHORE: FEELINGS ARE CONTROLLED UNCONSCIOUSLY



Extra Chat And Group Counseling Wednesday Afternoon



Additional chat at 2 PM Eastern time and phone counseling session at 2:30 ...   more »

View Article  NEW TRAVELER GUIDELINES; IMPOSSIBLE TO UNDERSTAND THE DIFFERENCE BEFOREHAND



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New Guidelines For Airline Travelers




Effective June 1, 2007, passengers on international flights will have standardized restrictions on the ...   more »

View Article  ALFRED LEWY AND JET LAG; DOES TURBULENCE MEAN SOMETHING IS WRONG?




This Email Is About Turbulence -- Let Me Know If This Is What Bothers You About Turbulence



Just a quick ...   more »

View Article  MEETING THE CAPTAIN
A Great Response When You Meet The Captain

Tom

I just wanted to thank you for taking the time to ...   more »
View Article  WHAT WE IMAGINE; FLYING AFTER 25 YEARS
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What We Imagine



One of our readers sent in this about the challenge of dealing with fear.



Back when I was in Boy Scouts and we started rock climbing, one of the
biggest fears that I had after putting on the harness and beginning the
climb was the fear of falling. It made every handhold and step upward
unnecessarily tense.



The best thing that happened early on in that
climb though was falling. Once I fell, I knew the worst thing that
would happen is the rope and my harness would catch me and I would hang
there with no harm done.

I developed confidence in the equipment and my
belay man. From that point onward the climb was much less tense and
much more fun. Periodically after that point at the beginning of a
climb I would intentionally fall just to rebuild that confidence and
remind myself of the worst case scenario.

I see somewhat of a parallel
to this and my flying anxiety. The plane -- as it goes through turbulence
-- is fine and the end consequence is nothing negative happens except in
our imagination.



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An Email About Flying After 25 Years



I don't think you can imagine the seriousness of my fears...for some reason it has grown over the years to where I would actually drive to California rather than fly...I wanted to go to Europe and searched freighters to make the trip. I could barely say the word "Flight"without my heart racing.



But I must tell you that I have in the last week had a VERY successful trip to Charleston, thanks to the SOAR course. I cannot tell you how this fear has built up over 25 years, and when I got on the plane I was absolutely comfortable with the two take-offs and landings, and the same on my return.



Thank you so much for creating this course...I actually looked forward to the return trip and found the whole thing quite exciting...this would have been unheard of two months ago.



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Tried Other Things But Without Much Success



Thanks for all the support and info you've sent. As many other testimonials have claimed, SOAR really does work.



I tried other things (Duane Brown's "Flying without Fear"; individual counseling) but without much success.



SOAR was diferent. My last flight was from Washington Dulles to Frankfurt, Germany round trip, and despite much anticipatory anxiety (you may recall that I called you from Dulles in a panic!) the flight itself was almost-anxiety free. I have a short flight coming up next week (DCA to Savannah, GA, with a stop in Atlanta) and am hoping that the surprising ease of my Frankfurt flight will keep anticipatory anxiety from getting too big.



I regularly mention SOAR to others as one of the few effective self-help programs I've come across. I wonder if you should write a book, I'd imagine it would really sell...



Many thanks,



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How To Speak Airline-ese



That's the subject of Patrick's column at Salon.com. To read it click here.




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Do Something Now To Feel Better About Flying




Start With SOAR



  • The SOAR Fast Track program can be on your computer's screen in two minutes.
  • Fast Track is inexpensive.
  • Fast Track gives you the most help possible in the shortest time.
What you pay for Fast Track is 100% transferable to the complete SOAR Course DVD or CD.





Get relief now. You will feel better as soon as you get started by clicking here.


All it takes is some preparation.



As you go through the program, whenever you have a question or a concern, please call me so we can talk it over.



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Wednesday Night Conference Call On Flight Anxiety



    9:00 PM until 10:00 PM Eastern time

    Join our regular 'chat' (where we type what we want to say).


    10:00 PM until 11:00 PM Eastern time

    Join in by phone on a conference call dealing with flight anxiety.



Instead of typing, we can just talk.



  • Listen in to the discussion.
  • Take part in the discussion.
  • It's your choice.



Want to know more about:



  • How flying works
  • Turbulence, and why it is not a threat
  • Controlling anxiety, panic and claustrophobia


We'll talk about this and more every Wednesday night



  • Eastern Time: 10 PM until 11 PM
  • Central Time: 9 PM until 10 PM
  • Mountain Time: 8 PM until 9 PM
  • Pacific Time: 7 PM until 8 PM



As simple as 1, 2, 3.



  • 1. Dial 1-641-793-7500
  • 2. You will hear, 'Thank you for calling the Conference Center.'
  • 3. When asked, enter this pin code: 681956 followed by #



For Your Convenience The Following Info Is Also Displayed Where You Enter The Chat At:
http://www.fearofflying.com/chat.shtml


View Article  IT TAKES BACKING TO TAKE A STAND



An Article On Maintenance



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It Takes Backing To Take A Stand



In Patrick's Salon.com article this ...   more »

View Article  IT'S NOT ABOUT THINGS BEING PERFECT, BUT DEALING WITH THINGS AS THEY ARE

Peace



It does not mean to be in a place where there is no noise, trouble, or hard work.



It ...   more »

View Article  MISTAKING WHAT IS IN THE MIND FOR REALITY -- PART FOUR


Mistaking What is In The Mind For Reality -- Part Four


What started out as a three-part series now has ...   more »

View Article  MISTAKING WHAT IS IN THE MIND FOR REALITY -- PART THREE
Mistaking What is In The Mind For Reality -- Part Three



This is the third part of a three-part series. ...   more »

View Article  MISTAKING WHAT IS IN THE MIND FOR REALITY


Mistaking What Is In The Mind For Reality - Part Two



Last week I wrote about psychic equivalence, and how ...   more »

View Article  COGNITIVE DISSONANCE AND PSYCHIC EQUIVALENCE
Fine The Airlines For Passenger Abuse?



The chairman of the House Transportation Committee, Rep. James Oberstar, wants to authorize the ...   more »

View Article  BALANCING RISKS VERSUS REWARDS

Balancing Risk Versus Reward



For years, I have been preaching that when flying to a country where you would not ...   more »

View Article  TWO WORLDS WE LIVE IN

The Two Worlds We Live In



Early in life, we all live in a world -- a vastly oversimplified world ...   more »

View Article  ANTICIPATORY ANXIETY; WEB ARCHIVE; COACH GETS ACCESS TO FIRST CLASS LAV

Anticipatory Anxiety Indicates Nothing About How The Flight Will Be



No matter how much anticipatory anxiety you have, it indicates ...   more »

View Article  Capt Tom's Article Published By The Masterson Institute
The following article was just published by the Masterson Institute. It is a bit technical, but with some introduction to ...   more »
View Article  OUTSOURCING; PAKISTAN AIRLINE PARTIAL BAN; PASSENGER BILL OF RIGHTS

Outsourcing Group Lobbies Against Safety Measures



If I haven't made it clear enough that there are psychopaths running corporations who ...   more »

View Article  A NEW WAY TO THINK ABOUT TURBULENCE; CONSUMERS REPORTS ARTICLE


Last Week We Reported A New Way To Look At Turbulence



I asked that you conceive of the airplane as ...   more »

View Article  A NEW WAY TO LOOK AT TURBULENCE


A New Way To Look At Turbulence



First, be on guard against believing your own experience. When in turbulence, it ...   more »

View Article  TURBULENCE AND THE MIND

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Wednesday Night Chat
View Article  NEW CHAT; IMAGINATION VERSUS REALITY

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View Article  NEW STRENGTHENING EXERCISE DVD; FAST TRACK FOR LAST MINUTE HELP







style='font-size:11.0pt;font-family:Helvetica'>TWO IMPORTANT ADDITIONS TO
THE SOAR PROGRAM!





FIRST NEW ADDITION: Update Of The SOAR Video Course – A More Effective
...   more »

View Article  "CRASH COURSE" ON FLIGHT ANXIETY; JOHN NEWHOUSE'S NEW BOOK ON BOEING VERSUS AIRBUS

Our New Program For People Who Need Help At The Last Minute



About half the people who contact us are ...   more »

View Article  WRONG ABOUT TURBULENCE; ARE YOU READY FOR CHANGE


It Seems Impossible For Some To Accept They Are Wrong About Turbulence



So what could be the reason? Imagination? If ...   more »

View Article  DEEP-ROOTED ANTICIPATORY ANXIETY

Deep-Rooted Anticipatory Anxiety



This week, I got an email from a client who said the audio course had done wonders ...   more »

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